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2019 Her Version of Events Reflections

Love Stories That Never Took Off By Dami Adisa

Are we still friends? I don’t know. Were we ever?
Will we still meet up and talk? Maybe. That’s all we ever did anyway.
Was I in love? Most definitely not.

September 13, 2019
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2019 Her Version of Events life lessons Reflections

Love Stories That Never Took Off By T. Love

I could have sworn I would spend the rest of my life loving you. It’s not happening, but it almost did. You owe me big time and you know this, it didn’t matter because it was gonna happen. But it’s not happening, it almost did.

September 5, 2019
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2019 life lessons Reflections

Love Stories That Never Took Off By Fatona Oluwatobi

I got out of a relationship last month. He was someone I knew had taken advantage of me because of my nature. He was not a bad person, he just had his flaws. Flaws I had trained myself to accommodate and deal with on a daily basis. My heart got used to the hurt of being left out, ignored and having my value questioned.

August 23, 2019
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Love Stories That Never Took Off By Oluwatimileyin Ologunde

Every time she blinked it looked like a speed light from a camera flashed at me, and every time she smiled, I wondered how someone could be so effortlessly beautiful. But good thing my pride is bigger than my feelings, so I neither greeted her nor nodded my head to acknowledge her presence.

August 2, 2019
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Love Stories That Never Took Off By Moyo

Fast forward to the resumption in the new year, got to work and he was there. Apparently, he started his training one month before I did but took an early end of the year break. Can’t remember who said what first but that day, I found out we were studying the same course in different universities, lived only one street away from each other and he knew all the songs that were playing from my phone. Nice!

July 19, 2019
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Hello, I am Oreoluwa Abidoye and welcome to The Over Thinker. I am one of those people that thinks deeply about every and anything, some say I think too much, hence The Over Thinker; a space to share my overthought out thoughts and opinions.
2020

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As we close  2020 in yet another lockdown and look forward to 2021, I attempt to unpack 2020 with my friend Toyosi. We discuss our highs and lows of the year and what we are looking forward to in 2021. 
And it wouldn't be  The OverThinker Podcast if we didn't talk about books below is a list of all the books we talked about in this episode; 
- Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman 
- An Orchestra of Minorities by Chigozie Obioma
- The Beautiful Struggle by Ta-Nehisi Coates
- Clap Before You Land by Elizabeth Acevedo
- Crazy Rich Asians by Kevin Kwan

And shout out to every listener for going on this journey if 2020 with me here is to a glorious 2021!

~Link to listen on your preferred podcast platform in the bio~ 
🎬: @tobyvanjohnson
Our first book club discussion for 2021 is here 🥳🥳🥳🥳. 

Maybe you should talk to someone is a must read, I have highlighted almost every page and I am excited for this discussion this Sunday. 

Please come join us all the details are in the poster and it you have any questions please feel free to send me a DM. 

P.S we will be voting on our book for February so come ready with your suggestions. 

#maybeyoushouldtalktosomeone #loriharvey #bookstagram #bookclub
In this episode, we talk about ongoing police brutality in Nigeria. We discuss how we are coping in the wake of everything that is happened from the first day of protest to the demoralising speech from the president and everything in-between. We end with our path forward and attempt to find rest in hope for a better tomorrow.
Thank you to Toyosi, Ibkun, Tobi and Dami for having this difficult conversation with me. 
Welcome to 2021 

~Link to listen on your preferred podcast platform in bio~ 

#podcast 
🎬 - @tobyvanjohnson
This Post - Shades of Blue explores what inspired my to paint back in September 2020 and what colour I associate with my personality. 

https://oreoluwaabidoye.com/her-version-of-events/shades-of-blue/

Yes the picture is in black and white, you are welcomed to guess what colours you think I used for her painting in the comments.
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